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Author: Delmer Eugene Croft
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A SUPREME DAILY-LIFE METHOD
A CENTRAL PLAN:= Do your mental work in the morning, your manual work
in the
afternoon. Do not dictate letters in the afternoon; from ten to
twelve in the morning is best. The brain is usually at low ebb at three
o'clock in the afternoon. Do not have your desk so that you have to look
side-wise at persons approaching you. It blunts your personality. By no
means have people enter behind you, it is the most negative psychic
influence possible. Let your position in your office be such that when
anyone approaches your eyes will fall upon them as near a straight level
as possible. Plan your workroom for efficiency. No matter how small, how
large, or if it be but a bench. Put your character stamp on the plan of
the work you do. Go to that work as a King goes to his throne.
Centralize your work. Plan it. Work your plan.
=HAVE A SYSTEM OF ORDER=: Set your mind in order first. If you are
living as I have taught in the lessons that have gone before, then your
mind will assume a supreme command of order almost at once. Classify
what you do. Keep matters separate. Do the big things first. As you
classify, drop the non-essentials. Weed out the useless. Never spend a
minute of your morning hours winding up a string or folding a piece of
wrapping paper. Do that when your brain tide has ebbed out in the
afternoon, or not at all. Don't hunt for a pin, or sharpen a pencil, or
manicure your nails after you reach your work of the day. Classify your
movements, eliminate the useless. Energize your movements. Move with
enthusiasm. Put elastic cheer into your step. Wear rubber heels of quiet
manners. Simplify your work. Keep it straight, after a little it will
keep you straight. Don't fall over your work, nor step on it, or sit on
it. Simplify by stopping the waste of words, waste of material, waste of
time. Jollify your work. Put fun into each day's round of toil. Be
original in plans and ideas.
=CULTIVATE YOUR EFFICIENCY=: To all the above add mental energy.
Develop insight, grow new business brain cells. Do not overload your
stomach with food, nor your body with clothing. Study directness. Master
application. At Niagara Falls I saw two giant dynamos generating
twenty-five thousand horse power, their efficiency was kept in perfect
balance by a little automatic nickle gate. Your efficiency is kept in
balance by little, invisible and automatic thought neurons. A clear
brain is the test of efficiency. Plans, orders, system, application,
give efficiency. Efficiency is positive thinking. Freedom-thinking,
above fear-thinking. Get out and keep out of negative thinking. Just as
soon as you drop negative thinking your mind will begin to rise to a new
brilliance of expression. One big element in efficiency is silence. It
is the strongest thing to be silent. Noise is emptiness, weakness,
inefficiency. Silence is the law of greatness; noise the breaking of the
law.
=DEVELOP YOUR POWER TO REST:= That person is wise who knows how to
rest. It is a powerful thing to rest successfully. Over-fed persons, or
animals, do not rest, they are stupefied. Rest is filling your
capacities with energy. "Sleep knits up the ravelled sleeve of
care," or it should. Rest is relaxing the nerves and muscles. Rest
is reconstructing broken down cellular tissues. Rest is restringing the
harp of the senses, retuning the rhythmic harmonies of the spirit. Rest
lets down the tension. When you sit down, let what you sit on hold you.
When you lie down, do not try to hold yourself on the bed. Rest is the
opposite of labor. Rest is recreation. Rest with sleep is a divine
restorative. When you cannot rest, or sleep, you are expending energy
without production. Try this little code for rest and sleep: "My
mind is empty, my soul is at rest." Repeat it with your eyes closed
and your body relaxed. Say it just as you would imagine the swing of the
pendulum of an old fashion hall clock. I never knew it to fail of
inducing sleep. Never rest or sleep with light falling on your eyes.
Shut out the world and noise.
=GROW THE FRUITS OF THE SPIRIT:= Love, Joy, Peace, Gentleness,
Goodness, Faith, Meekness, Temperance, against such there is no law. Do
not sit down and wish for them, nor wait for someone to bring them to
you, even God will not bring them to you. Grow them. Cultivate them.
Produce them. No power on this earth can defeat you, make you fail, or
over-throw you if you fill your Spirit with them. As you work, use them.
Take them with you to the store, the factory, the shop, the mill, to
your bench. Take them with you to the office, the counting-room, the
court-room, and to your throne-room. Take them with you to the battle
field, to the halls of justice, to the senate chamber, to the
presidential chair. Take them with you thru the streets, along the
highways, and over the unbeaten paths of your life. Take them with you
down the rivers, and out into the storm driven sea. Chain them to the
wheel of your ship, sail on thru the starless night alone. Trust them,
for they are the initiative of the Supreme in you.
=TRAIN YOUR VOICE:= Take your snarling, growling, snapping, whining
voice away into the jungle and leave it to the wild beasts. Take your
sobbing, sniveling, trembling, dolorous, sanctimonious voice down into
some dismal swamp and bury it. Train your voice as you would tune a
harp. Your voice is an index of character. Keep it on the level. Let it
"speak as one having authority." Charm it with modulation.
Make it ripple with music. Allow no thrust of anger to ruffle it.
Intensify it with determination. Strengthen it with courage. Give it
dominion and power. When other voices are hot and spuming around you,
keep your voice cool. Never allow your voice to become dull, dubious,
uncertain, shrinking, or hollow. Voice tones that are round, rhythmic,
full measured. Have a serene and reposeful voice. Look at what you
speak. Reflect your soul in your voice. Let the manner of your voice be
calm, smooth, collected, but energized with positive forces. Have a
cheerful voice, a voice that makes one think of sunshine and smiles.
=HOW TO LOVE RELATIVES:= To love your relatives be away from home all
you can. To have them love you keep about three hundred miles between
you and them. Thousands of homes and lives are wrecked by two families
of the same family trying to live under the same roof. Noah would have
foundered with the Ark
ten days after the flood started if he had taken
more than two out of any one family with him. Cain would never have
killed Abel if Adam hadn't made the fool blunder of trying to keep his
two sons everlastingly with him. Of course there was some excuse in the
fact that in those days New York and Paris were not brilliantly
attractive cities. If there is any one thing outside a church row, that
tickles the devil into a frenzy of laughter it is when a young married
couple go home to live with the family. There is about as much real life
joy and harmony in it as there would be in a jungle picnic of monkeys
and parrots. There is just one place where large families can dwell
together peaceably--the grave-yard. It is contrary to natural law that
families of grown ups, should live together. When a cub bear is old
enough, big enough to hunt for food, and comes back after he once goes
out, his mother gives him a mauling that makes him feel he would rather
starve than come back again. Does she love him? Of course she loves him
to the limit of her instinct, loves him to the point of pride that she
wants him to be a brave, daring, self-reliant master of the forest. When
the whelps of a lion get to be more than playful kittens, the mother
leads them into the jungle, slips away, leaving them to hunt. The young
lions may return to the old home, but their father and mother have moved
away to a distant den. To evolve their natures, to become supreme
denizens of the forest they must rely upon their own prowess. Take the
eagle, when the mother eagle by instinct knows the wings of her babies
have become strong enough to support their bodies, she pushes them out
of the eyrie. They fly, or will be dashed to death on the rocks. They
always fly. But you say human beings are not bears, lions, or eagles.
Well, humans could well afford to attend the Nature College of the wild
animals of the woods, to learn the ethics of health, happiness and the
development of the individual.
Treat your relatives royally, then let them alone. Keep out of their
affairs, try to keep them out of your affairs. Be kind, generous,
sympathetic. But keep out of the danger zone. Insist upon living by
yourself, living your own life, thinking your own thoughts, playing your
part in life's drama. Parents wish they could hold their children, the
way to hold them is to let go of them. If you love them you will let go.
Love is unselfish. God sent His only Son on the loneliest journey ever
taken, and He came back crowned with glory. God can live with lots of
people you and I can't. Abraham amounted to something, God said to him:
"Get thee out." "And he went out, not knowing
whither." He staid until he became the head of a people as
numberless and brilliant as the stars of the heaven. But Isaac hung
around home, lived on his father's greatness, and the only real thing he
did that was worth while was to re-dig some wells his father had dug
before him. The first time he saw his sweetheart Rebecca, whom another
man had to go and get for him, he lifted up his voice and cried like a
boob. He had become soft on the mutton and grape juice of his father.
Tender little doves flit around the home cote, but the eagle sweeps from
sun to sun. Anyhow, in these modern days children are very largely
bringing up their parents.
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To kill a quarrel, shut your mouth.
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There is a world of sense in the saying; "Sell your hammer and
buy a horn."
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There is one place we can bear a boil, and smile--on the other
fellow's neck.
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Many people possess more than a thousand acres of possibilities, and
have about half an acre under cultivation.
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The best way to exterminate mosquitoes would be to start a plan to
cultivate them as a money making commodity.
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Stop nagging, twitting, insinuating, suspecting those whose love you
wish to hold. You assassinate love when you ridicule it.
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Temper is the yeast of personality. No man or woman ever rises in the
world without it. A razor, knife, ax, or writer, actor, minister,
without it, isn't worth a damn in any market. Never lose your temper,
lose all things, but keep your temper.
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When I see people who are great stickers as to form, or attitude, in
prayer, they remind me of my old neighbor, Saxby, who fell into Bill
Smith's well. He said: "The prayingest prayer I ever said, was in
that well standing on my head."
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Do you know the meanest thing about the worst boy on your street? I
will tell you. It is the fact that you do not like him, and he knows it.
God never made a mean boy. Parents have made some, towns have made some,
and cities have made a host.
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Supreme Personality by Dr. Delmer Eugene Croft Psychotherapist and
Lecturer. New Haven Printing Company, Publishers, New Haven,
Connecticut. The text has been formatted by Jayaram V for
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